Bunnie XO Reflects on Marriage to Jelly Roll, Compares It to ’10-Year Bid’
Bunnie XO, estranged wife of country star Jelly Roll, has drawn a striking comparison between her decade-long marriage and a lengthy prison sentence. This comes amidst news that Jelly Roll has begun dating again following their separation.
Reports confirmed last Monday that Jelly Roll, born Jason DeFord, filed for divorce from Bunnie in May, marking the end of their 10-year union. Just three days later, Bunnie revealed on her podcast that they are still pursuing a shared pregnancy through a two-year IVF process. She also confirmed Jelly Roll’s new romantic pursuits, expressing happiness for him.
Following the podcast episode, Jelly Roll addressed his audience during a concert, affirming the truth of Bunnie’s statements. He shared a video on social media, expressing his enduring love and calling Bunnie his “best friend forever.” However, in a recent episode of her podcast, “Dumb Blonde,” Bunnie offered a more pointed reflection on their marriage.
A Surprising Analogy from Bunnie XO
During the podcast, Bunnie read aloud several messages she has received from admirers following the divorce announcement. She highlighted one message from an individual incarcerated, who wrote:
‘Hey pretty lady, I’m about to get out of prison on a 10-year bid next year. Please let me go out and have a time with you. That’s all I ask. I promise it will be worth it. Hit me back.’
Bunnie, whose real name is Alisa DeFord, explained that while she didn’t object to the man being in prison, she took issue with the expectation of immediate intimacy. In a moment of candid humor, she remarked to her co-host:
‘I just got out of a 10-year bid too, b****es.’
Enduring Affection and New Beginnings
Jelly Roll previously shared a touching video diary detailing his divorce, featuring a warm phone conversation with Bunnie. He playfully told viewers, “Yeah, y’all thought we were gonna hate each other, didn’t ya? Plot twist, b****es!” He also confirmed Bunnie’s statements on his podcast, emphasizing their continued bond.
Sources close to the situation indicate that Jelly Roll will “always love” his estranged wife, but their paths have diverged. An insider noted that he is now in a “very different place,” feeling healthier and more focused. The source acknowledged Bunnie’s significant role in his past success, stating he “knows he wouldn’t be where he is today without her.” Conversely, he has also been a steadfast supporter of Bunnie through various challenges.
Details of the Separation Emerge
Bunnie elaborated on the reasons behind the split during her podcast, describing their relationship as a “recipe for disaster” due to a tendency for both to internalize issues rather than confront them. The tension culminated in a significant argument on Mother’s Day, which led to her urging Jelly Roll to file for divorce.
Despite the divorce, Bunnie revealed that they are “still having a baby together” and plan to co-parent. She characterized their situation as unconventional, emphasizing that “nobody cheated on the other person” and that they “served our purpose for each other.”
Bunnie also addressed rumors linking Jelly Roll to a younger pop star, dismissing them as “disgusting.” She vehemently denied speculation about her own romantic involvement with Nickelback frontman Chad Kroeger. However, she openly confirmed Jelly Roll is dating again and expressed genuine happiness for him.
A Decade of Support and Shared History
Reflecting on their decade-long romance, Bunnie called Jelly Roll her “twin flame” and “soulmate,” affirming her deep love and continued support. She candidly admitted to not being adept at marriage, having been married three times prior.
Bunnie tearfully credited Jelly Roll with saving her life during their early struggles, a period marked by her work as an escort and battles with addiction. She stated, “I truly feel that my husband saved me. He was the catalyst for me becoming the woman I am today.” She also acknowledged his reliance on her support during his rise to stardom.
The couple’s journey included significant personal heartbreak, with Bunnie revealing the loss of four embryos and three failed IVF transfers. The strain of their fertility struggles, coupled with career pressures and differing personalities – Bunnie describing herself as more reserved and Jelly Roll as more outgoing – contributed to their eventual separation.
Jelly Roll filed for divorce in May, citing “irreconcilable differences.” While the divorce is not considered mutual by Bunnie, she acknowledged its necessity. She hinted at a generous settlement, stating Jelly Roll is “taking care of her in the divorce” and is giving her the “dream home” they were building.
Bunnie also touched upon their shared history with Jelly Roll’s daughter, Bailee Ann, whom she helped raise. She admitted to struggling with motherhood in their early days, both battling addiction. She credits Bailee Ann with helping them mature.
Looking ahead, Bunnie expressed excitement about her future, stating, “I’m ready to have fun.” She encourages other women to “reclaim your power, you can be sexy again.” She also noted that she immediately began hormone replacement therapy and is in therapy, having lost 15 pounds since the marriage ended. The couple is ending their marriage on “the best possible terms.”


